I
belong to a family where everyone denies believing in superstitions. Still they
do. It’s something that we knowingly or unknowingly follow almost daily.
I
remember in my childhood my mother used to make me look at a water filled
bucket before leaving for giving any exam or competition. Before leaving home
for traveling we used to have some sweet. If my aunt found any footwear flipped
then it was sure for her that she going to have a bad day that day. I was not
allowed to leave home just after having milk. If it’s urgent then I have to put
some mouth freshener or any snacks in my mouth.
There
are many such memories which make me today too to follow some as per my
convenience.
Are
you Superstitious?
So,
yes I am not superstitious but follow some which make sense to me. I do not
mean that they are good to me to follow but I do to satisfy my faith and handle
my fear. Also to make others happy who want me to follow them irrespective of
what I think about such superstitions.
What
are Superstitions?
I do not find any problem to believe
in certain superstitions which are little logical and not going to harm if we
follow them. These are rituals and traditions which most of the time are
actually illogical and without any knowledge. Still we follow them in our lives
and could not stop thinking about them.
Sometimes
they are caused due to fear, stress and sometimes it’s we misunderstand it with
faith. When they are due to fear we name them bad luck and when they are for
faith we name them good luck. However they are mere illusions and have nothing
to do with luck.
The people who believe in them are mostly who want to
control their life for better fortune or to handle worried life. Believing in
superstitions is not new. It must be as old as humans in the planet. How was
the first superstition originated? Why
was it originated? Such questions are still mystery.
Some of the superstitions do have scientific reasons to
follow them. However we like ignorant do not bother much to find the logic
behind that. And remain in ease of following the ritual with the belief we are
taught by our ancestors.
Some
very popular superstitions:
There are some very popular superstitions worldwide. I
know some of them which are common in India too. And few of which have reason behind them:
Knocking Wood/Touch
Wood - This is another very popular superstition which is been practiced
since centuries. In order to avoid bad luck, people tap, touch or knock on the
wood. It is believed that the supernatural powers, good spirits and God reside
in trees and hence touching the wood will overcome bad luck or the unfavorable
situations.
This tradition is common in many countries in their own
ways. Such countries are Malaysia, Indonesia, Italy, Iran, Bulgaria, Romania,
India, Spain, Egypt, Poland, U.S., Brazil, Greece, etc.
In order to protect ourselves from this we have a number
of methods:
*To hang combination of Nimbu-Mirch
(Lemon-Green chilly) to keep evil eye away.
*Rotating burning coconut seven times
around the head to remove ill effects of evil eyes.
*Putting black tikka (black kajal
mark) on forehead or anywhere on face to protest from people with bad
intentions to our kids or anyone.
*Spreading mustard seeds in the
corners of the house.
*Putting lemon in a glass of water.
*Rotating red chilies, salt, bran
flour and mustard seeds combination seven times around the face to abandon the bad effects of evil eyes
from a person.
*Keeping a bowl full of salt at any
corner of house.
*Having aquarium in house.
For the methods that we
use like lemon, chilies, mustard seeds etc, there is that these things are
natural disinfectants. Hanging or spreading these things keeps pests and
insects away. Also in past lemon and chilies are very much carried by people
while travelling for different purposes like stay hydrated, examining poisonous
snake bites etc.
In Turkey people use blue and white
color eye charm called “nazar boncuğu”. Similar types of charms are also common
in other countries like Egypt, Greece, Morocco, Iran etc.
Black Cat- Most of us is very familiar with this
popular superstition. The history of this superstition is 3000 BC from Egyptian
periods. However during that time this was very much a sign of supernatural
power which brings good luck. It was linked with the Goddess Bastet and
believed as something that protects home. Later in middle age in Europe, black
cats are started considering as evil omens for its connection with witches and
devils.
Hence different countries feature this superstition
differently. For some countries like Britain, Ireland etc its good luck with
certain situations while many other areas like South Korea connected it with
bad luck.
In India too if a black cat crosses the road or your way
then it is a bad omen. In that situation to overcome the curse this has
brought, the person takes five or seven or eleven steps backwards and then
proceeds commuting. Otherwise leave that way and go somewhere else.
This superstition
although has a valid reason. In old days people used to travel by carts pulled
by animals. While crossing the forests when big cats like lion, jackals, hyenas
etc came across, the animals pulling the cart were stopped. Even they get so
much scared that travelers in cart get injured many times. Since then sharing
of such stories by travelers made people to believe blindly that cats crossing
way is bad luck.
Tuesday
the 13th / Friday the 13th – In some countries like Spain, Greece
etc Tuesday the 13th is considered as a source of curse and
misfortune. While in others Friday the 13th is the day people avoid
anything significant for the same reasons.
There are many explanations for this
superstition. However nothing is clear till date. One of the popular reasons is
that Crusaders won over Constantinople which unfortunately fell on Tuesday 24th
1453. Where, the sum of 1453 came up as 1+4+5+3 = 13. Since Tuesday 13th
is considered as a bad day.
As per Biblical
tradition, 13 people including Jesus attended the last super on Thursday. And
on Friday Jesus was crucified, which was Good Friday. Since then combination of
13 and Friday is a bad omen.
Trimming
nails at Night - This
is another popular superstition in countries like India, Turkey, Japan and
South Korea. According to this tradition, cutting nails or toe or fingures in
dark is a bad luck. Even the person doing so may get a premature death.
While
the reason for this seems valid in history, when people used to cut nails with
very sharp tools in dark and get hurt. Due to medical ignorance such people
could have got sever pain, infection or even death.
Breaking of mirrors – As per this tradition, breaking of
mirrors brings seven years of bad omen. Especially if a person is having his
reflection in the mirror while it breaks. The reflection of person in mirror
has connection with its soul. If the mirror breaks then the soul is actually
stolen. Same concept of soul stealing is associated with photography.
According to ancient myth, mirrors have powers to see
future and used by magicians and Gods. A broken mirror would end all the powers
that the owner of the mirror had. This will
bring misfortune to the owner’s life.
If we look into history, this belief originated in Roman
and before the mirror was found. The person who saw the reflection in water
thought it as the spirit. This thought was linked with the Roman belief of the
soul regenerates in every 7 years.
Chew gum at night – In countries like Turkey chewing gum
or any sweet tablets at night is considered as bad luck. It is believed that
chewing gum at night is chewing rotten flesh of a dead.
Flying of birds inside
the house – In some
countries the flying of birds inside the house is not good. When the bird flies
all around the room and chose someone’s chair to land. The person whose chair
is chosen would die soon, as per this tradition.
In Africa owls are sign of bad luck. If someone sees or
hear owl then person gets some bad news related to finance or health.
In India if crow sits outside your house and makes sound
this means the house will have some guests very soon.
In Russia if a bird poops on you or anything that belongs
to you then it’s symbol if good luck. This will make you rich and better.
There
is no scientific explanation of this tradition.
The curse of seventh son- In Argentina, Brazil, South America
and some other countries, it is believed that the seventh son will become a
cursed creature or turn into werewolves if not adopted by the president of the
country.
Hanging
horseshoe – In some western counties including India, hanging horse shoe is
very auspicious. In fact hanging the
horseshoe above the door will bring good luck and protect the home from evils.
The
origin of this superstition is way back to 959 AD in England. Saint Dunstan was
a brilliant blacksmith. Once the Devil asked him to, make horseshoe for his
horse. On which Saint Dunstan pretended to follow the Devil. As Saint got the
chance, he grabbed and nailed the horseshoe on the foot of the Devil. Due to
unbearable pain the Devil screamed and begged to remove the horseshoe. Saint
Dunstan agreed to remove but in a condition. The condition was to swear that
the Devil will never enter anyone house with the horseshoe hanging above the
door. To which the Devil instantly agreed.
Since
then horse shoe which is of iron is the significance of power and good luck.
In
India it is also used in bedroom to keep bad dreams away. A horse shoe has
seven holes which is a sacred number and a lucky number too.
Ringing Bells – Bells are symbol of “voice of God” in
many religions. It is used to communicate with spirits and address the power.
By ringing bells one can drive away evils, demons, snakes, mice and witches. As
they all hate loud noise. This is the reason bells are used on special occasions
like weddings, during prayers etc.
In India, all the temples have bells to ring while we visit
temple to pray during pooja. These bells are made of different metals like
lead, magnesium, cadmium, copper, zinc, chromium and nickel in a particular
proportion. On the basis of their proportion and size of bells, these bells
produce different sounds. On ringing bells, the sharp sound of minimum seven
second echo unites our left brain with right brain. Also touches seven healing
centers in our body. In this way our mind becomes free from all thoughts for
those seven seconds and foes in Trans state.
Woman having periods – There are a number of myths and superstitions
related to menstruation of woman. In
most of the countries around the world, some of these beliefs are still active.
In some parts of India a lady in periods are not allowed to visit temples. She
should not enter kitchen. She is considered as impure or evil. She is not
allowed to eat certain food.
In
other countries like US, UK, Nepal, Israel, Brazil etc. too they are bound with
certain set of restrictions. They cannot enter inside home and are provided a separate
area to live. She cannot wash or cut hair. Wash pad before disposing or evils
may attach them. She cannot touch plants and flowers otherwise they will die. There
are so many more like these. And the biggest one that a girl got first menstruation
should wash her face from that blood to keep skin clear.
Don’t
know why and how these rules came into people mind in ancient time. Now a days
there must be leniency I am sure.
In India the reason for these restrictions is considered as the
woman become weak physically and needs rest. So, such restrictions will give
her time to relax and away from daily routine chores. Do not know if it’s a valid
reason or an excuse.
Shooting star / falling
star - Many people in
this world believe that the falling stars are actually God peeping from above
to us. Hence they find this time as best to true any desire by wishing it
during the falling star. This belief is 100 CE old originated by Greek
astrologer.
The
Geeks also believe shooting star as falling or rising human souls. Christians
and Jews believe them as fallen demons.
This
superstition has no scientific explanation.
Sweeping with Broom at
night – In many
countries using boom in evening or at night is supposed as sweeping out good
luck. In England sweeping with new broom in the month of May is bad.
In India we avoid using broom at night
as it is believed that Goddess Laxmi visits home after sunset. If someone
sweeps or mops the goddess does not come.
The logic might be that
while sweeping in dark there might be chances of loosing something precious
which was lying on floor and by mistake gone out with sweeping. Also that at
the time other members are at home and sweeping during that time can make air
dirty for all of us.
Adding one rupee - Adding one rupee to gift money means
adding blessings, luck and love. In India, we make the amount 100 rupees to 101
rupees and 1000 rupees to 1001 rupees.
The reason of adding one
rupee is to make the amount odd number which is not divisible. An even number
gets divide and becomes zero at last.
The eye twitching is scientifically
proven as sue to stress, eye strain, lack of sleep, etc.
Peepal tree at night – It is not considered
safe to go near Peepal tree at night. People in India believe that evil spirits
resides in Peepal tree. If someone passes near such tree at night then evil
spirit possess the good spirit of the person.
There is scientific
reason behind this belief. Peepal tree is a huge tree hence it exhales more
carbon dioxide at night. It is hard for any person to breath comfortably near
such tree because of lack of oxygen.
A groom seeing bride
before marriage – As
per this superstition, a groom cannot see his bride before marriage. This
tradition is very common in many countries.
The history of this
tradition is sad that in ancient time bride’s father was required to please
groom family with dowry or the demands kept by groom’s family. If the demands
are not fulfilled then there could be chances of calling off the marriage. If
the father allows groom to meet with his daughter and later the marriage calls
off then there would be shame for him, his daughter and his family. To avoid
any such situation, brides are not allowed to meet her groom or vice versa.
Some more superstitions are:
Some more superstitions are:
- Crossing fingers while wishing good luck is a common tradition in western countries.
- Leaving the scissors open when you have nothing to cut is sign of bad luck.
- The Groaning cheese superstition in Medievalg England for long and prosperous life of a child.
- Opening an umbrella inside the house bring bad luck. By doing this the person is insulting the Sun and guardian spirits of your home.
- We say ‘God Bless You,’ when someone sneezes to keep the person safe.
- Number 4 brings bad luck according to people in China and some other countries.
- Stepping left foot on dog poo is good luck while putting right leg is bad luck.
- Cutting nails on Tuesdays and Saturdays are equally bad as cutting nails at night.
- Washing hair on Thursdays and Saturdays brings bad luck.
- The kids are asked to cover their belly when it is raining and thundering. Otherwise the God of thunder may steal or eat the belly button.
- Walking backward is bad luck in some countries like Portugal. It’s like giving signal to evil spirits about the way you going.
- In countries like South Korea sleeping with fan open in a closed room is a bad omen.
- Never use the statements like “I am going”, “It’s my last drink” etc to attract bad luck. Such believe is common in India, Cuba etc.
- Keeping bags or purses on floor can make one penniless. Similarly keeping any purse without a single penny in it will bring bad luck in finance. Such believes are found in Brazil, India etc.
- Carrying acorns in pockets can keep a woman with youthful complexion according to ancient Britain.
- In countries like India Turkey etc if someone jumps or goes over a child then the child will not gain good height and remains short.
- Having 12 grapes one by one on New Year’s Eve will bring good luck. This is believed in Spain.
- Entering a room with left leg is bad luck in Spain. Similarly entering the house with left leg is not good in India. Especially in special occasions like marriages, house inaugurations, pooja etc the main members are asked to enter the house with right leg only.
- In Britain, North America etc. saying “Rabbit Rabbit” or “White Rabbit” ensures a good luck for the month. As rabbits live underground and can communicate with underground spirits.
- Singing during dinner time is like inviting devils for food. This belief is from Netherlands.
- Russian and Hungarian believe that sitting at the corner of the dining table will bring bad married life.
- If two or more people say same thing at same time then they are never going to get marry as per the superstition in Italy. To overcome this bad luck, those people need to touch wood or their nose. This superstition is also common in Greece.
- In Korea if a pregnant lady has asymmetric fruit then she will give birth to an ugly baby.
- In Russia giving yellow flowers is a bad omen for the one you gave flowers.
- Itchy hands may be good or bad omen for Indians and Russians. Left itchy hand means you will lose money while right itchy hand means you will get money.
- Sleeping with your head in north direction is bad luck in Japan and India. While sleeping with head towards west is bad in Africa.
- Facing two mirrors opposite to each other is invitation to the devil in some countries like Mexico.
- Wishing happy birthday early brings misfortune as per German, Indian etc.
- Before going to new house, general house cleaning cloths should be burnt. This leaves all bad omens in previous home. This is early 20th century superstition from America.
- Complimenting a small kid is not good in Serbia. They say a newborn is ugly. This seems something related to evil eyes.
- Spilling of salt or sugar is bad in some countries. One can put sugar over the spilled salt or pepper as a remedy.
- Women will get beard if they have goat meat according to superstition in Rwanda.
- Shaking of leg is bad in some countries like India, Korea etc.
- Crossing fingers for good luck. In old days it was used by Christian believers to find another believer as a sign of peace. Now a day’s people use this to hide their lies.
- If you sit on cushions then your back will get cuts and blisters. This is believed in Malaysia.
- Hitting a man with broom even though by mistake will make him to lose his genitals. As a remedy the man should be beaten by seven times in Nigeria.
- If its sun and rain at the same time, it makes rainbow and looks so beautiful. In Philippines this condition is a sign of bad luck. According to them the devil horses are getting married.
- In some places if two heads bump accidentally then it should be repeated to break bad luck it may cause. Bumping of heads may lead to fight between the people.
- In countries like Holland and Switzerland, a couple should plant a tree outside their house after marriage for good luck. Oh! I liked this one the most. It sounds so logical to maintain greenery in our surroundings.
- In Italy, One can die within three hours if takes meal just after swimming. Well seems logical. It might not be death but having meals just after any type of exercise is not good for heath. Especially swimming which is a hard one.
- If you keep inside out clothes then it brings bad luck. You may be beaten by someone.
- According to Americans witches cannot enter a house having diagonal windows.
There are still many more
superstitions around the world. Many of them have no meaning and logic still people
are following them just to avoid any bad luck or curse that such superstition
may generate.
Sometimes when my kids do not listen
to me I just use some prank like if they do not finish their milk then the left
over milk will cry at night. This makes them to finish their milk. However I
know it’s just a prank. Who knows some of the superstitions might have been
generated like this only.
Following or not following them is all
up to us. Just following them should not be so illogical that it may hurt
someone or oneself. Following such superstitions should always be for good
reasons with better output.
If you can suggest any new
superstition which I have not mentioned then please mention it. If you have any
scientific reason or know logic behind any superstition that I have mentioned
then below please let us know in comments for more exposure in this topic.
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